If you just complain,you can't bring change. Stop complaining and start working or else stop complaining and let others work.
Don't try over and over with the same method to get an answer out of someone.If they are reluctant then they are just look for another way to be convinced.Don't try to change them - change yourself - and they will warm up to you.
If you want to know where a person's interest lies,then ask them where they're getting there money from.
If you want to be the best,then get used to criticism. You cannot be the number 'one' and be loved by all at the same time.
Nobody is born with a plan or a reason to live. You just find them along the way no matter the age.